This beautiful client came to the studio to mark a special occasion: a double birthday gift for herself and her partner. Talk about a sultry present. From the moment she walked in, I could feel the energy: part excitement, part nerves, and a whole lot of intention. She came ready to embrace this experience fully, and it showed in every detail. She really nailed the outfit choices: from cozy, lived-in vibes (like this post here!) to full steamy romance.
I loved the soft white tank that gave off a effortless Sunday morning look. And she wore a button-up shirt worn open that was a whole main-character-energy moment. Then add a few pieces of lingerie that felt elevated but still so her. It’s always a little extra fun to create when clients bring options that reflect both comfort and confidence – and she struck that balance beautifully.
One of my favorite moments of the session happened towards the end. We were in the groove, the sunlight was pouring into the studio in that dreamy, golden kind of way, and we had already captured some magic. She paused and told me, almost surprised with herself, “I never thought I’d do topless photos, but I feel so comfortable… can I change my mind?”
The answer is always yes… if it feels right for you. I’ll never push past a boundary, and I make that clear long before we ever step into the studio together. That’s why my pre-session prep guide asks about comfort levels, coverage preferences, and anything you might be unsure of. But I also believe that you’re allowed to change your mind. You’re allowed to show up feeling bolder than you expected. You’re allowed to feel free.
Whether she was curled up on the studio bed in a soft cotton casual look, or striking a model-esque pose in red lace, she was owning it.
And the beauty of it is that she could change her mind and still stay anonymous. All of her photos that are shared online are also in her control. Win-win.
Boudoir isn’t about what you wear (or don’t wear). It’s about how you feel. It’s a transformative experience in the moment. It’s about honoring your body, your story, and your essence. Whether you’re doing it for someone else or mostly for yourself, it’s a chance to step into your power and see yourself in a whole new way.
If you’re thinking about booking a session or need a sultry present – but aren’t sure you’re “ready,” take this as your sign. You don’t have to come in knowing all the poses or having it all figured out. Just bring yourself—as you are—and let the rest unfold.
You might surprise yourself, too. 💫
Mary Castillo Photography creates alternative and fun imagery for the open-minded and non-traditionalists.