Booking a boudoir experience is a big deal. You’re showing up, being vulnerable, and letting someone else capture it. That’s freakin’ amazing. But also can be scary as hell. That’s why it’s so important to find someone who’s the right fit for you. These 5 things to consider when picking your boudoir photographer will help you walk in feeling not just empowered, but safe. As someone who owns a Minneapolis studio, that specializes in the boudoir experience, I can tell you: this is what you deserve. 

A safe, confident, inspiring experience. 

So here are 5 Things to Consider When Picking Your Boudoir Photographer: 

1. Experience matters.

Boudoir photography is its own art form. The way light hits your skin, the way you’re posed, the way you’re guided through the session… it all takes skill and experience. A seasoned photographer knows how to make you feel safe, supported, and natural. Nothing phases them. If you’re feeling nervous, that kind of energy matters. You’ll be able to relax and trust the process, knowing they’ve seen it all and know exactly how to help you shine. The more nervous you are, the more this consideration should move up in priority. 

2. Look at the portfolio. 

This one’s huge. When you scroll through a photographer’s portfolio, do you see people who look like you? Different body types, sizes, and abilities should all be represented. A photographer who can beautifully photograph all bodies knows how to pose and light every person with intention. This might be a hot take, but if every photo on someone’s feed looks the same, that’s usually a red flag. You deserve someone who celebrates real diversity and knows how to make everyone feel incredible in front of the camera. You want someone who works with intention, not just muscle memory. 

3. Check the reviews.

What are people actually saying? Are their past clients describing the kind of experience you want? Look for words like “comfortable,” “empowered,” “fun,” and “safe.” Or whatever feelings you’re craving! Those are the signs of someone who gets it. Boudoir isn’t just about the photos.. it’s about how you feel when you leave the studio. And again, how you feel having your photos in hand.

4. Pay attention to the styling.

Are you drawn to glam, bold, high-contrast looks with spicy lingerie and smoky eyes? Or do you love soft light, natural poses, and an artistic, organic vibe? Every photographer has a distinct style. Make sure what you see in their portfolio aligns with what you want. Personally, I’m drawn to movement, emotion, and a more organic kind of beauty. Think: casual clothes or lazy Saturday-morning vibes. But that’s the fun part: finding what fits you.

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5. Know what you want to walk away with.

Some photographers include digital files. Others specialize in albums or prints. Most will have a session fee and then separate collections to choose from. Think about what you want: whether it’s tangible keepsakes or just the digitals. And ask to see a product menu ahead of time, since most photographers offer both.. (You can peek at mine here).

At the end of the day, your photographer should make you feel seen, celebrated, and totally yourself. That’s the heart of boudoir. When you take the time to think through these 5 things to consider when picking your boudoir photographer, you’re setting yourself up for an experience that feels empowering from start to finish.